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We Are Gonna Be Friends…

Tonight I’ll dream while I’m in bed, when silly thoughts go through my head;

about the bugs and alphabet, and when I wake tomorrow I bet,

that you and I will walk together again…

I can tell that we are gonna be friends.

-The White Stripes, We Are Gonna Be Friends


Soo about last night…

I read something once a few years ago about us humans being funny creatures; we pick someone and decide we want to go out and do stuff with them (paraphrasing horribly here). I thought it was cute but it didn’t really apply to me because my friends have been my friends for what seemed like my entire existence. I couldn’t remember when we decided to be friends but we just always were. I don’t remember a time I didn’t know their names, birthdays, families. I don’t remember when I wasn’t going to their house to kick it or calling their parents “Mom & Dad”.

You don’t think about how to make friends as an adult because it’s not really something you do. You might go out with an existing friend and meet their friends; you don’t really exchange phone numbers or anything. You start seeing each other around and recognizing faces and then all of a sudden a couple years down the road you forgot that this person wasn’t always your friend. What if I told you that you dating and making a new friend are a lot more alike than you may realize? Hear me out.

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Soo About Last Night…

Thanks guys for coming through! So apparently y’all love how I tell a tale, so I needed a home for my stories. Here is where I will tell you about my days, nights, thoughts, Bernishaisms dates (good and bad) while I search for the Caramilk secret, the meaning of life, the Holy Grail and Mr. Right.

Subscribe, comment, talk to me! We’re about to have a good ass time.  Just imagine getting that call from someone that starts with “Soo about last night…”
This is that call.

The stories are real, the names are fake, the thoughts are my own and the hilarity will be priceless.  So pull up some e-space and let me tell you all about last night…