Everything is cool when love is all brand new
Cause you’re learning me and I’m learning you (it’s cool)
Cause you’re learning me and I’m learning you

-Musiq Soulchild – Newness

Soo about last night…

It’s Springtime.  First of all, thanks to this bitch season for finally showing up!  I was almost convinced that we were gonna remain in a tundra until Fall and then Winter would repeat itself.  

A long time ago, my girls and I would all pile into one of our parent’s apartments, sit on the balcony and talk about guys everything we could think of.  The first 20+ day of the year would unexpectedly roll through and by that night we were getting ready to go for a walk and talk about what we knew as “Spring Fever”.  It would be that feeling that would come over men and women alike that would lead us to make that “What’s up?” phone call or send that “How have you been?” text.  Spring fever is what made good girls bad and bad boys busy.

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Soo About Last Night…

If you’ve been with me since the beginning (yes, I know the blog is a month old and this is only my 4th post. Stop judging and pay attention), you would know that this blog came about after I went on a bad date with Captain Struggles to Struggle Corp. I wanted somewhere to document my dating struggles because y’all think I’m funny and actually read this stuff and I wanted to be able to look back on everything I went through once I had found #Him so I could laugh about the road it took to get to happy. I have to report though, the jig is up now. Let me tell you a little something about my love life: Continue reading


The Only Thing Constant Is Change…

I started this blog with the express intention of documenting the ridiculous dates that I would go on while I tried to find just that “one”. Well as life would have it, after the struggliest of struggle dates, I didn’t really go on many dates. I actually blame you guys for that. Y’all are so interactive that I ended up spending most of my time sliding in dm’s requesting nudes talking to y’all on Twitter when I should’ve been out and about entertaining my fellow single folks.

No matter though, because I have to admit I love your company and I hope to have more of it. I just finished reading a blog from ending to beginning (over the course of a few days) and it made me realize that I wish I had a blog where I could talk about whatever I wanted; so this blog has changed a little. Instead of talking about struggle dates, I’ll talk about everything. My thoughts/feelings for the day, a funny story I might want to share, might even ask y’all for some answers in a segment I’m considering calling “Why Sway?”

I’ve got some characters in my life that you’ll meet, some from my past that I may reference if they’re relevant to the point I’m trying to make and of course I’ll add the new ones as they pop up. For now, let’s get acquainted. Tweet me @ladyblovebytes or drop me a line here and let’s talk all about last night!